Making a guy open up to you is probably one of the most gargantuan tasks there is. It's not totally impossible, though. If you don't want to be clueless anymore about what his actual feelings are, here are things that you might want to do:
A silent ultimatum.
Making him see that you're not going to be available forever might make this man show his real intentions. Let him know that if he takes his sweet time, he might just miss what he's actually dreaming of.
What about your feelings?
One of the probable reasons that this man's lips remain sealed could be because he doesn't know what you're feeling for him. He could already be dying to get to know you but if he's uncertain about your emotions for him, then he may take his time to strategize. Make your feelings known but not that obvious and he'll probably start courting you soon.
Trustworthiness.
Try to make your man relax around you. Your trust is something that he actually wants to earn and so make him feel that he has already earned it. Once this man learns that you already trust him, then he'll be more than ready to show you his true feelings.
Increase the intimacy.
Once you establish trust between the two of you, it's time to get closer to him. Make him feel thrilled when he's with you. Encourage him to freely express himself not only in words but in other aspects of your relationship as well.
Have the courage to ask him.
Sometimes this is all that you need in order to make a man open up to you. Some guys are just too shy to volunteer any information (more so their emotions) to any woman so they probably need some help in that area.
Know when to stop asking.
Sure it may help to ask a man about how he actually feels but there are times when he doesn't feel like opening up anymore. When this happens, be cool about it. Don't start a confrontation or an argument about how he won't share his world with you! Just believe that in his own due time, he will be sharing all his feelings with you - just learn to patiently wait.
Let him feel that you truly care.
Perhaps your man is also clueless with where he actually stands in your relationship. Let him feel that he's an important part of your life and that you do care for him. Any guy who learns that he places high in your priorities would most probably assess his actions and start improving them.
A silent ultimatum.
Making him see that you're not going to be available forever might make this man show his real intentions. Let him know that if he takes his sweet time, he might just miss what he's actually dreaming of.
What about your feelings?
One of the probable reasons that this man's lips remain sealed could be because he doesn't know what you're feeling for him. He could already be dying to get to know you but if he's uncertain about your emotions for him, then he may take his time to strategize. Make your feelings known but not that obvious and he'll probably start courting you soon.
Trustworthiness.
Try to make your man relax around you. Your trust is something that he actually wants to earn and so make him feel that he has already earned it. Once this man learns that you already trust him, then he'll be more than ready to show you his true feelings.
Increase the intimacy.
Once you establish trust between the two of you, it's time to get closer to him. Make him feel thrilled when he's with you. Encourage him to freely express himself not only in words but in other aspects of your relationship as well.
Have the courage to ask him.
Sometimes this is all that you need in order to make a man open up to you. Some guys are just too shy to volunteer any information (more so their emotions) to any woman so they probably need some help in that area.
Know when to stop asking.
Sure it may help to ask a man about how he actually feels but there are times when he doesn't feel like opening up anymore. When this happens, be cool about it. Don't start a confrontation or an argument about how he won't share his world with you! Just believe that in his own due time, he will be sharing all his feelings with you - just learn to patiently wait.
Let him feel that you truly care.
Perhaps your man is also clueless with where he actually stands in your relationship. Let him feel that he's an important part of your life and that you do care for him. Any guy who learns that he places high in your priorities would most probably assess his actions and start improving them.
Reference:krista Hiles
