Some women seem to have all the luck they need to win every man's heart. You might feel that that is some feat that these women have achieved but you need to know that it is no rocket science. Here is what you need to know if you want to win the heart of any guy.

Learning the art of an ego massage

You can win a man's heart quite easily if you know how to massage his ego properly. You have to be genuine else you will get caught trying to impress him. Identify his character and learn to say things like" I've never met anyone with such a clear perspective" or "I wish I could think the way you do. You know so much. How do you do it?", and win any man's heart.

Being an amiable woman

You don't have to agree with everything that a man says but being a raging feminist is really not going to help if you want to win any man's heart. You have to let them see that you are a nice, amiable and wonderful woman.

Being a self assured and independent woman

Despite being amiable you have to have a lot of character. And that can only happen if you are a self assured and independent woman. Earning a man's respect is one way of winning his heart as men do not give their hearts to women who they do not respect.

Showing that you are going to be there for him

A man's heart can be won only when you show him that you are going to be there for him and that you are not going to treat him like a fly by night affair. So learn to be there for your man at every point that he needs you.

Being supportive and understanding

If you want to win any man's heart then you have to be supportive of him and try to understand where he is coming from. Even if you don't completely understand him, making an effort to do so also works wonders.

Not being a detective all the time

When you want to win a man's heart you have to learn to be trusting and secure. You cannot be insecure about your man and relationship and be a detective all the time. If he feels that you don't trust him then you cannot win his heart.

Being everything that a man wants in a woman

When you want to be able to win any man's heart you have to be as desirable and as feminine as possible. The idea is to make him see that you are the personification of all that he wants in woman.

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This is my guide to being "that girl" and, consequentially, making him want you more:

 Be confident

This goes beyond thinking highly of yourself. Being confident means being secure in yourself and in what you're doing. It means that while you're open to dating prospects, you're happy by yourself--you don't need anyone. Obviously, this is easier said than done, so my advice is: fake it until you make it.

Work hard

. Recently, a guy said this to me: "Bea, when you're working...God, I can't describe it. There's just something about it; you're so hot when you work." When you work hard, it shows men that you have goals and priorities beyond dating.

Worry less.

Worry less. It's hard not to care about what others think of you, but I've found that the most attractive girls were not the ones who had the best style or the most accessories, but the ones who didn't give a damn. I'm certainly not saying you should dress like a slob; just worry less.

Smile mo re. This one should be a no-brainer.

Be passionate

. When I told a guy that I loved life, he said it was the hottest thing he'd ever heard. Again, this goes along with showing men you have interests besides dating. Be proactive in your life; attend belly dancing classes, learn a new language, participate in a missions trip to Africa--whatever floats your boat.

Be unpredictable 

. When a guy can predict your every response to his every move, that's when he loses interest in you. That's when you get the classic "hot and cold" guy. He comes to you when he needs an ego boost, and when you respond positively (and predictably), he turns cold.

Respect others

. When people say men like bitches, they don't mean bitches who treat others like crap. Guys hate getting involved in petty gossip and it shows your insecurity when you insult another person. Contrary to popular belief, men do like nice women.

Be positive

 Nobody likes to listen to hateful rants. Try this: for every sentence that begins with "I hate", throw in ten sentences that begin with "I love"

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Respect yourself

. This means creating boundaries and sticking to them. This means saying "no" when you know something isn't good for you. For me, this means saying "no" to hooking up outside of a relationship. For everyone, this means preserving your dignity

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Be yourself

 This is the last and most important point in this list. Often, I find that I censor myself less with guys I'm not that into, which results in my personality coming across more, and (you guessed it!) their interest peaking. Say what you really mean, and if a man can't handle it, he isn't worth your time anyway.

Bottom line

don't let him dictate your actions. I've been a doormat a few times too many, so I know that it's not easy to follow this list. But I promise that if you try, you'll see results. For more relationship tips, head over to my blog.

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