Ready for the dating games to be over and the real love to finally start? Here's your checklist for finally getting that successful relationship and the love the you deserve:
Make Sure He's the Right One
Before you go any further, be certain your guy is the right guy to want to settle down with.
It's common for women to settle for relationships that they aren't really happy in just so they can finally get married; at a certain age they become terrified of loneliness. Don't ever be afraid of being alone, and don't ever be afraid of not fitting society's ideals.
Love You First
If your ultimate goal is to be loved, and more specifically, to be loved by your guy, then the most important step is loving yourself first.
It may seem like a tired cliche, but it's also truth. Don't overlook the necessity to put yourself first and care for yourself before you expect anyone else to.
Make Sure You're Ready
Be careful what you wish for! Make sure that you are 100% ready for love and commitment.
Some good questions you can ask yourself if you're trying to make sure: Are there any 'ones that got away' from my past that I am still pining over? Am I certain that I'm completely finished playing the field? Is my financial independence something I'm willing to sacrifice? Am I ready to be part of a team and no longer make all decisions by myself?
Reality Vs. Fantasy
Be able to tell the difference between the image of love and the reality of love. Make sure you can accept the real version, without all the glitz and glamour. Things won't be perfect.
Don't Settle
If love is what you are truly after, then don't allow yourself to settle for anything less. There may be times when it seems easier to follow a different path or accept some form of affection from your guy that isn't really love, but don't settle for this. Demand the real thing.
Sometimes it Isn't Meant to Be
If you've been hoping your guy will stop the game playing and he just won't, then maybe it's time to accept the fact that this guy isn't the right one.
Someone who is able to truly love you will be mature enough to stop the immature games, especially if you ask him to and express that it's important to you. You can't force anyone to love you or do anything that they don't want to do. If he just isn't willing or ready, then it might be best for you to move on no matter how difficult this may be.
The Right Guy is Out There
Perhaps you will find yourself unable to make a certain guy love you or treat you the way that you know you deserve to be treated.
If this is the case, don't fret for too long. The right guy is out there somewhere and you will meet him when fate decides it's time. Your future husband/soulmate will be able to show you what you were missing previously in your dating life and give you all the love you crave
Reference;- krista Hiles
