- Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.
- Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
- Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
- Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
- Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
- Choose those you have a good chance of dating. Be realistic. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous, great! Just know that others will expect you to be the same.
- Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups -- anything that might help you meet like-minded potential partners. You will not meet people by staying indoors and playing video games – many have tried and failed at this approach.
- Take time off from dating occasionally if it’s not going well or causing dating fatigue. Recharging your batteries and keeping confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. We all hit rough patches, but don’t let your search for love become a death march. Date in phases if necessary.
- Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not play a bigger part in your life down the road. The fact is, most people have something interesting to offer. While you may not be out on the dating scene looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.
- Never make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not sleep with your dates early on. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. (And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If the chemistry peaks too early, your emotions may never have time to catch up and the relationship will eventually wither away.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Best 10 dating tips for women
Saturday, September 11, 2010
How to Make a Memorable Impression on a Guy? He Will Really Like You After You Follow These Tips
You do not want to be the type of woman who does not make an impression on a guy, you want him to remember you and admire you. A fleeting impression is not going to help him stay attracted to you. Here are some ways in which to make a memorable and lasting impression on a guy.
Say something that will stick in his memory
Be witty and sound interesting. Men have a thing about women who are literally dumb and don't have a thing to say! If she cannot voice her thoughts, feelings and ideas in an intelligent way - he will begin to lose interest no matter how gorgeous she looks! SO if you want to make an impression, say something witty and interesting that will grab his attention.
Wear something that will blow his mind
It goes without saying that a beautiful dress will always make a man look at you twice. Take care to dress in a fashion that will make him want to be with you. Remember it is the first time you are meeting him and the first impression is usually the lasting one! Wear something that will make you look sexy, beautiful and appealing.
Do something that will make him remember you
Men have a way of remembering something that is out of the ordinary. Even a simple gesture or action on your part will stay in his memory. If you lean forward to brush off an imaginary speck from his coat, or make sure your thigh "accidentally" brushes his, he is bound to remember that!
Impress him with your personality
The trick is to show him that you are full of confidence and that you have a high self esteem. This will automatically impress him and he will try to get to know you better. Once you talk to him let him see that you are cool, collected and self assured. This type of attitude is a definite turn on.
Show him that you have class
All you have to do is show him that you are a class apart and all the other women around you are way below par! The way you speak, dress, walk and behave will prove whether you have sophistication and class. Your manner will put you in a class that is above the common and this is going to impress the hell out of him!
Stand out as an example
No matter what company you are in - you have to endeavor to stand out in the crowd. This means going the extra mile and working hard to put the competition around in the shade! If you have to buy a new wardrobe, get expert help with your makeup and hair, learn how to be poised and elegant - do it!
Have an "untouchable" air about you
As soon as a man thinks that you are unavailable and "untouchable" - they yearn to have you! This is because they want to prove that they are irresistible and can get any woman they want. The harder you make it for him, the more he is going to want to capture you. He will want to prove that you are not the "ice maiden" you pretend to be!
Say something that will stick in his memory
Be witty and sound interesting. Men have a thing about women who are literally dumb and don't have a thing to say! If she cannot voice her thoughts, feelings and ideas in an intelligent way - he will begin to lose interest no matter how gorgeous she looks! SO if you want to make an impression, say something witty and interesting that will grab his attention.
Wear something that will blow his mind
It goes without saying that a beautiful dress will always make a man look at you twice. Take care to dress in a fashion that will make him want to be with you. Remember it is the first time you are meeting him and the first impression is usually the lasting one! Wear something that will make you look sexy, beautiful and appealing.
Do something that will make him remember you
Men have a way of remembering something that is out of the ordinary. Even a simple gesture or action on your part will stay in his memory. If you lean forward to brush off an imaginary speck from his coat, or make sure your thigh "accidentally" brushes his, he is bound to remember that!
Impress him with your personality
The trick is to show him that you are full of confidence and that you have a high self esteem. This will automatically impress him and he will try to get to know you better. Once you talk to him let him see that you are cool, collected and self assured. This type of attitude is a definite turn on.
Show him that you have class
All you have to do is show him that you are a class apart and all the other women around you are way below par! The way you speak, dress, walk and behave will prove whether you have sophistication and class. Your manner will put you in a class that is above the common and this is going to impress the hell out of him!
Stand out as an example
No matter what company you are in - you have to endeavor to stand out in the crowd. This means going the extra mile and working hard to put the competition around in the shade! If you have to buy a new wardrobe, get expert help with your makeup and hair, learn how to be poised and elegant - do it!
Have an "untouchable" air about you
As soon as a man thinks that you are unavailable and "untouchable" - they yearn to have you! This is because they want to prove that they are irresistible and can get any woman they want. The harder you make it for him, the more he is going to want to capture you. He will want to prove that you are not the "ice maiden" you pretend to be!
Saturday, September 4, 2010
How to Make a Man Feel in Control - If You Can Make This Happen Then He Will Always Love You
There is a lot that a woman can do to make her man feel in control of his life. If you want your man to feel free in a relationship with you and feel like he is in control of his life here is what you have to do.
Show him that you need him
A man needs validation form his woman to appease himself. He needs to know that he is doing a good job of being the support system and the provider. So, tell your man that not only is he doing that extremely well but also that you need him in your life. That will make him feel in control.
A man needs validation form his woman to appease himself. He needs to know that he is doing a good job of being the support system and the provider. So, tell your man that not only is he doing that extremely well but also that you need him in your life. That will make him feel in control.
Value his judgment
A man feels in control when his judgment is valued and respected. Try not to question his judgment too much. Make him feel like his judgment is bound to be right and that you trust him with everything.
A man feels in control when his judgment is valued and respected. Try not to question his judgment too much. Make him feel like his judgment is bound to be right and that you trust him with everything.
Complement him the right way
Every man feels in control when he is appreciated. So, complementing your man is very important. But say something that asserts his role as the man in your life. Assuming that he is feeling self assured at all time is wrong. So, delve deep and show him your concern.
Every man feels in control when he is appreciated. So, complementing your man is very important. But say something that asserts his role as the man in your life. Assuming that he is feeling self assured at all time is wrong. So, delve deep and show him your concern.
Show him that you desire him
A man feels in control and more like a man when you show him that you desire him. The next time he gets home, give him an unexpected surprise by planning an exciting evening with him.
A man feels in control and more like a man when you show him that you desire him. The next time he gets home, give him an unexpected surprise by planning an exciting evening with him.
Ask for his opinion
Take his opinion on the important things in your life. Consult him when you make a large investment or plan a career change. Let him see that you depend upon him for all the decisions in your life and make him feel in control.
Take his opinion on the important things in your life. Consult him when you make a large investment or plan a career change. Let him see that you depend upon him for all the decisions in your life and make him feel in control.
Give him his alone time
A man will feel in control of his life when he gets some alone time to catch up on his own life. Men need their space to rejuvenate and to sort out their problems. Cramping this alone time and asking him to spend that time with you is going to make him feel suffocated. Gradually he will begin to feel that he is no longer in control of his life anymore.
A man will feel in control of his life when he gets some alone time to catch up on his own life. Men need their space to rejuvenate and to sort out their problems. Cramping this alone time and asking him to spend that time with you is going to make him feel suffocated. Gradually he will begin to feel that he is no longer in control of his life anymore.
Be supportive of his passions
A man harbors several passions and it is essential that you support these passions of his. When you do so he feels proud to be associated with a woman who is clear about what she wants and understands his needs. This is what helps him feel like he is in control.
A man harbors several passions and it is essential that you support these passions of his. When you do so he feels proud to be associated with a woman who is clear about what she wants and understands his needs. This is what helps him feel like he is in control.
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