Saturday, September 4, 2010

How to Make a Man Feel in Control - If You Can Make This Happen Then He Will Always Love You



There is a lot that a woman can do to make her man feel in control of his life. If you want your man to feel free in a relationship with you and feel like he is in control of his life here is what you have to do.
Show him that you need him
A man needs validation form his woman to appease himself. He needs to know that he is doing a good job of being the support system and the provider. So, tell your man that not only is he doing that extremely well but also that you need him in your life. That will make him feel in control.
Value his judgment
A man feels in control when his judgment is valued and respected. Try not to question his judgment too much. Make him feel like his judgment is bound to be right and that you trust him with everything.
Complement him the right way
Every man feels in control when he is appreciated. So, complementing your man is very important. But say something that asserts his role as the man in your life. Assuming that he is feeling self assured at all time is wrong. So, delve deep and show him your concern.
Show him that you desire him
A man feels in control and more like a man when you show him that you desire him. The next time he gets home, give him an unexpected surprise by planning an exciting evening with him.
Ask for his opinion
Take his opinion on the important things in your life. Consult him when you make a large investment or plan a career change. Let him see that you depend upon him for all the decisions in your life and make him feel in control.
Give him his alone time
A man will feel in control of his life when he gets some alone time to catch up on his own life. Men need their space to rejuvenate and to sort out their problems. Cramping this alone time and asking him to spend that time with you is going to make him feel suffocated. Gradually he will begin to feel that he is no longer in control of his life anymore.
Be supportive of his passions
A man harbors several passions and it is essential that you support these passions of his. When you do so he feels proud to be associated with a woman who is clear about what she wants and understands his needs. This is what helps him feel like he is in control.
Reference:- Krista Hiles  

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